Him: Hold my hand ;I’ll take you to the stars.
Her: But my hands are full ; holding myself together.
Him: Hold my hand ;I’ll take you to the stars.
Her: But my hands are full ; holding myself together.
Mom is another thing that we often take as granted, just like oxygen, water and electricity. Now, some people here will be like, oh my god! How can you compare mom to a thing? Or , a woman is not a thing! And blah, blah, blah, without even reading the whole story! Like seriously? Anyway let’s continue while ignoring such kind of people who create unnecessary drama and shows themselves as a liberal person in public who take care of their wives and treat them no less than a queen . But only they know what is the truth. It’s true that our thoughts keep evolving with time. And when people change their statements and thoughts with time, they are called as fickle , or vague , or unstable to their statements by the so called netizens. I’ve always been closer to my mother and saw her working every minute of the day , for every day of the month and for every month of the year and for every year since she came into this house after being married to her husband, my father of course. Now that doesn’t mean that I hate my father or he doesn’t much work. He is a really good father and I share very good relation with him, he also works very hard this house. And my grandmother, she also keeps helping my mom in the households. But she have various advantages like, she can rest whenever she wants, she do work whenever she wants to or mom will do it anyway, she can go and sit for an uncountable number of hours in our relatives house. But my mom , it’s not like she feels caged or feels like being harassed, because our family is really a sweet one. She thinks that taking care of us is the only target of her life now. She says , that she will be happy to work even more if it results in my success. That smile never leaves her face, when she talks about having dinner in a 5 star hotel, the day I will pay the bill with my first salary. She’s growing old, not because of age but because of the hard work she do and want to fulfill all her dreams as soon as possible.
Sitting locked up on the bathroom floor, knees brought up to her chest, her throat choking on her tears so as to not let out a sound or let anyone know, it was just another night for the little girl. Not the girl she wanted to become. All she ever wanted was to have a normal happy life with loving parents who are proud of her with every accomplishment she made. But she was so misfortunate that she got none of it.
Her life, in anyway, was neither normal nor happy. Her parents showed her the love but never truly loved her. Moreover, they always expected her to be “a little” more. They were never happy with any of her accomplishments, let alone proud. The little girl never got the things she wanted. And to get over all these emotions of being the “disappointment of the family”, this was the only way for her without bothering her parents with another burden than she already gave them.
All these cries every night was done by her with one and only one motive: To be able to see the next morning’s sun and continue to strive for her recognition in her parents’ eyes. It was as if she had caged herself and her true emotions inside her for her parents to see just the hard work which they would ignore anyways. Nighttime would become the time she finally opens the cage and lets herself out without letting anyone see.
The moon, the stars, and the four walls were the only ones who accompanied her through these times when she needed someone so badly but was never able to tell anyone, or “become a burden” as she thought herself to be.
The moon and all the stars would sometime even hide behind the clouds to weep in place of her and give her the comforting sounds of the thunderstorms. The sound of thunderstorms that everyone feared so much were like comforting music and sight to her. During such nights, she would stop her cries and look up to catch a sight of one of those bright lights and hear those loud sounds of explosions. After which, she would doze off into a peaceful deep sleep, one of the best sleeps of her life.
THE END
Do you have any clashes at work or in your personal life? Are you concerned that if you do something great, others will look down on you? Are you anxious that your own family would not support you in doing something you enjoy? Are you unable to complete a task because you are afraid of failing? Do you want to establish your own business but something is preventing you from doing so? Do you seek advice or look for motivating and inspirational films or videos for success stories or tips on how to live a worry-free life?
The book ‘How to be Successful: Think like a Leader’ written by the author, ‘M. Curtis McCoy’ is a motivating and uplifting book. It compiles several interviews and true stories of Jeff Wobig, Connie Wyatt, Paul B. Watson, Eric Payne, Caujuan Mayo, Nathan Schulhof, and Jeff McGregor.
In the fourth chapter, the author has answered a series of interview questions about his definition of success, what steps he took to get to a certain point in life, his greatest strengths, his greatest weaknesses, how he overcame them, what types of books he has read, what types of character traits he values the most in others, what inspires him, what advice he would give to others, and many other topics.
The author has added short encouraging chapters after each interview to motivate the readers such as reward yourself, make others feel appreciated, six keys to building quality friendships, meet new friends, take pride in your appearance, stop wasting your life, the art of saying ‘No’, improve your attitude, develop winning habits and many more.
There have already been many times in your life where you thought you put everything you could towards achieving a specific task but, you failed. The times you came close to success but just fell short. They may seem like failures but they aren’t. Each time we try and fail not only do we learn more about ourselves but we develop strength for the next round. Quite simply you learn from the small battles what it takes to win the war. Remember if it was easy to be highly successful everyone would do it. Achievement is an ongoing process, you need to go over your goals every single day with laser beam focus. A dream becomes a goal when action is taken towards it.
Throughout the book, the author has included numerous inspirational quotes that will inspire readers to take action in their lives. Although there were a few grammatical and typographical errors, they did not deviate from the message the author was trying to convey. In addition, the author’s writing style was also distinct and easy to comprehend. The power of prayer and the Christian faith in God are all mentioned. This book is suitable for young entrepreneurs as well as anyone who feels stuck in their career/ job or life situation. I would like to rate this book 4 out of 4 stars. “Success is the ability to bounce back from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.”
It all started during my sophomore year at DAV public School. As an introverted student who struggled to find my place among my peers, I sought solace in books and solitary hobbies. However, my life took an unexpected turn when I stumbled upon an archery club flyer on the bulletin board. Excitement surged through me as I envisioned myself gracefully releasing arrows, hitting bullseyes with precision. Bursting with newfound enthusiasm, I rushed home to share my newfound passion with my parents. To my dismay, they greeted my excitement with skepticism.
“Archery? That’s not a real sport,” my father scoffed dismissively.
My mother, worried about the expenses, added, “You should focus on your studies instead.”
Determined to pursue my dreams, I decided to prove them wrong.
Despite the lack of support from my parents, I mustered up the courage to join the archery club at school. It didn’t take long for me to realize that my passion for archery ran deeper than anyone could imagine. I began attending practice sessions religiously, pouring my heart and soul into perfecting my technique.
One afternoon, as I struggled with my aim, a seasoned archer named Coach Sarah approached me. She had witnessed my dedication and offered to be my mentor. With her guidance, I learned the intricacies of archery, from the correct stance to the release of the arrow. Coach Sarah became my guiding light, pushing me beyond my limits and instilling a belief in my abilities.
As my skills improved, so did my confidence. I participated in local archery competitions, surprising everyone, including myself, with my performance. I won my first tournament, and the taste of victory fueled my determination to succeed. Months of rigorous training paid off when I stood on the grand stage of the National Archery Championship. The roaring crowd and the pressure of the competition were exhilarating. With my parents cheering from the stands, their doubts replaced with unwavering support, I channeled my energy into each shot.
In a breathtaking turn of events, I emerged as the champion, proving that with perseverance and determination, dreams could come true.My journey from a hesitant beginner to a national champion had not only transformed me as an athlete but also as an individual. Archery had taught me the value of self-belief, the importance of pursuing passions despite external skepticism, and the power of unwavering determination.
Today, as I reflect on my journey, I am grateful for the hurdles I faced. They strengthened my resolve and nurtured a resilience within me that I didn’t know existed. Archery had become more than just a sport; it had become an integral part of my identity, shaping me into the person I am today.