YEH ISHQ NAHI AASAN ITNA SAMAJH LIJIYE
IK AAG KA DARIYA HAI AUR DOOB KE JAANA HAI….
The lines from a poem have depths of an ocean and desolation of a heart.”LOVE”-The word which has lost its meaning for the current generation. Relationships these days are no more than an entertainment source or a way to prove it to the world “I AM NOT ALONE, I HAVE THAT SOMEONE SPECIAL!!!”
True love is perished and you would find rare scenarios where it has managed to flourish. Whatsapp, Facebook, Texts, Calling and Snap chat have replaced meetings, letters and feelings. You fall in love within a day and get over with it within months. You can touch each other, but your souls never connected. You had a physical connection, but the mental connection is nowhere to be seen. Understanding, loyalty and trust is defined in last seen on Whatsapp, Status updates on Face book and stories on Snap chat.
Jealousy, Insecurities and blaming each other has become a part and parcel for every second love bird. Self-centred and perfectionist nature of the youth has taken over the only true feeling that a human can possess. Accepting flaws, making compromises ,working hard to never let go is AN OLD SCHOOL PHILOSOPHY THESE DAYS.
Honesty has lost its way too soon and expressing what you actually are, what you desire and how far you see your relationship going is suffering incredible negligence .Breakups are so stereotyped that you will lose faith in the word “LOVE”. Betrayal, misunderstandings, time and space are the nouns that could be easily added to the reasons of the present day murkier relationships.
Relationships are made within frameworks that don’t take us out of our comfort zones and are lucrative. Expectations turn into disappointments and things fall apart.”I LOVE YOU” is said too soon and the depth of what is said is lost. People don’t talk to listen and solve, they tend to reply and prove the one on the opposite side wrong.
LOVE is meant to be unconditional. As soon as condition comes, it turns into a convenient transaction. It can never be convenient and strong people tend to cross the strenuous journey.
Love should be made a Quality and challenging the defences that limit true love can make it work. True love takes time to build up. Love comes into picture when a year of infatuation or attraction fades and few arguments results in drifting away of couples. The purest form of true love is experienced by a human when he/she falls in love for the very first time. The death of first amour makes a person reluctant towards second chances.
Love fades away with time…It is the mutual understanding, compatibility ,sacrifices, fixing if something is broken and loyalty that stays. Years of relationships drift away by things that are temporary. Human behaviour makes us fall for the idea of love where everything is just a fairy tale but real love involves struggles, efforts, wait and pain.
Love is not something you need; it should be something you want. One should realise the difference between HIS NEEDS AND HIS WANTS.
“LOVE IS INFINITE AND LOVE IS FREE,
LOVE IS ETERNAL AND LOVE IS DEEP SEA,
LOVE IS JUST TWO WORDS,
IT IS YOU AND ME…”
Image Source: wallpaperscraft.ru