Have you ever felt everyone around you is moving and growing but you are not . You find yourself exactly there where have left or have been left . Ever thought about it why does this happens. It is not necessary for us to be at fault always sometimes the situation is not in our favor. Does that leads to lose hope and a trembling confidence? The answer is yes it does . It kills you from inside . You see yourself as a failure no matter how much you make efforts. What can a person do then ? When i was in school there was this poem which stated ,”Try Try but don’t cry, try until you achieve success” , these lines seems worthless to me not that I am asking someone to stop believing in this poem and giving up but I feel sometimes everything is not enough for you, for me to be happy. Sometimes being lost and struggling, mocking is in our path. I am clueless about so many things in so many aspects but I hope I find peace in whatever I do. The feeling of being stuck while everyone else around me is growing in every possible is the worst . Makes me feel like a failure . I am trying my best but still could not discover what the actual problem is . Maybe because I am comparing my life with every other person is making me feel so and hence I cannot focus on myself . But what do I do It’s like it’s not in my control, not at in my grip. I seriously Don’t understand how is it easy for everyone to discover their true self , understand themselves and know what they want and for me it’s tougher , I would rather say the toughest chore . Maybe this is what adulting is , adjusting , realizing, analyzing, worrying, complaining and what not .